tl;dr: Blame-based leadership creates fear, silences learning, and erodes trust. Great leaders replace blame with shared accountability, psychological safety, and system-focused improvement.
I recently witnessed a leadership moment that stopped me in my tracks. A CEO, standing on a stage in front of hundreds of employees, pointed to a fellow C-level executive and declared:
“If anything goes wrong with this initiative, that's the person to blame.”
No smile. No wink. No hint of humor. Just a public preemptive scapegoating.
And I remember thinking: if that's how the “executive team” operates, are they really a team at all?
That moment wasn't just uncomfortable–it was revealing. It showed how quickly leaders can default to blame instead of shared responsibility.
The Failure of Blame-Based Leadership
Public blame-shifting isn't just unprofessional–it's a failure of leadership. When a leader singles out an individual for potential failure, they erode trust, create fear, and stifle innovation. In contrast, great leaders cultivate an environment where accountability is shared, learning is encouraged, and failures are seen as opportunities for improvement.
A strong leadership team should function as a cohesive unit. They should be a team, not a collection of silo leaders.
When one member falters, the others step in–not to assign blame, but to find solutions. A CEO who throws a colleague under the bus in front of an audience isn't fostering accountability; they're fostering defensiveness and disengagement.
I never interacted with the CEO at the time, but the blame game was strong at GM 30 years ago when I worked there:
Accountability vs. Blame
Accountability means taking responsibility for results–good or bad–and using them as a basis for improvement. Blame, on the other hand, is about assigning fault without looking at systemic factors or opportunities for growth.
Leaders who truly embrace accountability don't pass the buck. Instead, they:
- Create a Culture of Psychological Safety – When people feel safe admitting mistakes or performance shortfalls, they're more likely to learn from them. Harvard researcher Amy Edmondson has shown that psychologically safe teams perform better because they're willing to take risks and admit missteps without fear of humiliation.
- Use “We” Instead of “They” – Effective leaders understand that challenges are faced together. Instead of saying, “If something goes wrong, it's on them,” they say, “If we encounter obstacles, we'll work through them together.”
- Frame Mistakes as Learning Opportunities – A Lean leader doesn't fear mistakes; they embrace them as fuel for continuous improvement. As I wrote in The Mistakes That Make Us, organizations that normalize learning from failure build resilience and adaptability.
- Focus on Process, Not Just People – Often, failures are not the result of a single person's misstep, but a breakdown in process. Leaders who adopt Lean thinking know that improving systems–not blaming individuals–is the key to sustainable success.
So what does accountability look like in practice? And how do great leaders create conditions where people feel safe owning results?
In Toyota's culture, leaders take responsibility for the system, not just the outcomes. When something goes wrong, the question is never “Who messed up?” but “What in the system allowed this to happen?”
A Challenge for Leaders
If you're in a leadership role, ask yourself:
- When things go wrong, do I step in with curiosity–or step back to protect my reputation?
- Do I discuss mistakes openly, or do people hesitate to bring me bad news?
- Do I help people investigate systems, or do I quietly look for someone to hold responsible?
Accountability isn't about finding a convenient person to blame when something goes wrong. It's about creating an environment where people are safe enough–and supported enough–to own problems, surface issues early, and learn their way forward.
Ready to Replace Blame with Learning?
If you want to move your organization away from blame-based leadership and toward psychological safety, shared accountability, and real improvement, I can help.
I work with executive teams, healthcare leaders, and organizations across industries to:
- Reduce fear and finger-pointing
- Build accountability without blame
- Create cultures where people speak up, learn, and improve
- Turn mistakes into progress instead of silence
Whether you're planning a leadership retreat, conference keynote, or hands-on workshop, we'll focus on practical behaviors leaders can apply immediately–not slogans or theory.
Blame shuts people down. Learning moves organizations forward.
Let's build the kind of leadership culture that makes improvement possible.
If you’re working to build a culture where people feel safe to speak up, solve problems, and improve every day, I’d be glad to help. Let’s talk about how to strengthen Psychological Safety and Continuous Improvement in your organization.







[…] Why Great Leaders Share Responsibility Instead of Throwing Others Under the Bus: Amen to that! We’ve all worked for the latter type of boss – or will at some point. Great read. […]
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